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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why won't a woman that is no longer interested in being sexual with her long term partner just say that she is no longer interested?  Just be brutally honest so that decisions can be made and lives happier.  Men look at sex as approval and reward, as well as a major stress reducer. Not fair to for a man to be denied and not fair for a woman to go through all of the begging, comments and even having sex with someone they have no interest in being intimate with.[/quote]

Being honest is cruel. I am supposed to tell DH I don't want to have sex with him because I have lost attraction and what turns me on is novelty? He can't help that. I don't need sex, he does, I try from time to time so I keep up my end of the bargain, but [b]men instinctively know that sex is going to dry up eventually in a marriage, right[/b]? It's the oldest comedy line about how a bride is smiling on her wedding day because it's the last BJ she ever has to give.[/quote]

One problem is the mixed messages on the subject. Even in this thread. Plenty of people are saying that a wife would want to have sex with her husband if he was good. So, the guy goes into marriage thinking, "I'll be a good husband, so she's going to want to keep having a lot of sex with me." But, it's plenty common for wives to not want to have sex with good husbands. (And not too uncommon for women to enjoy sex with guys who aren't particularly good to them.)

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