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[quote=Anonymous]I think many of the naysayers don't understand how molestation works. The person does not feel your child's private parts in front of family. There is a gradual, every so slow breakdown of boundaries all while gaining the trust of anyone who would question it. Tickling can be grooming behavior. I would be more concerned if the child said no and it was ignored, but still OP had every right to stop it.

I have a creepy sibling who is highly regarded in a field working with children. There have been many instances with my own kids and my brother's kids where we had to step in and stay stop for things as simple as she was playing with the babies toes and the baby didn't like it or she tickled and the child said to stop and she would not. She forces kisses and hugs ans we jump in. We will not allow her alone with our children. She is always offering to babysit cousin's kids-sounds so generous, but after observing her with the kids they have all said no. My mother becomes hysterical with rage anytime and aunt or uncle has implied she is creepy in how she watches and obsessed over other people's kids. My mother has yelled at me and my brother for never allowing her to be alone with our kids. She has never molested anyone that we know of, but her boundaries are just off and my gut feeling is something is wrong.[/quote]

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