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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. But I knew I didn’t want to remarry. Marriage is only required/helpful if you have kids involved. I’m not having more biological kids and have no interest is step parenting. Been divorced 8 years. [/quote] This is me, exactly. 8 yrs out, never want to resume the compromises that every marriage requires, both the little ones and the huge. I am set in my ways, admittedly selfish in some respects. I hate to compromise on the things that are important to me, like where I live, how I celebrate key holidays, how discretionary $ is spent .... I have an enviable relationship with xH of 17 yrs, his wife, their extended families. No bitterness that I can detect (although I do regret some things). My adult kid is happy and well adjusted now after the initial painful period. I feel incredibly lucky and happy about how beautifully things turned out post-divorce, and I would be an idiot to tempt fate knowing what I know now about myself.[/quote]
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