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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I’d say he didn’t do it on purpose. But if he’s mad at you, he doesn’t feel like apologizing or dealing with your emotion about the breakage.

That said, I don’t know his personality. Is he the type to break something deliberately because he’s mad at you?[/quote]

[b]He breaks stuff all the time out of anger.  But it's more like frustration at the object[/b].  I don't remember him ever breaking stuff because he's mad at me specifically.  [/quote]

Ummm.. Forget the watering can. Your husband needs anger management. [/quote]

Hello!? This is BIG RED FLAG waving here in this nonchalant mention of husband breaking things all the time. It is not healthy to take emotions out on things by breaking objects. Eek. Also coupled with some of the other things you have mentioned here - passive aggressive silent responses, subtle stonewalling when it comes to answering questions... there is something else going on here.

Also, you cannot “guess” by reading strangers responses what it is or is not that your husband did and was feeling at the time. Only he knows this and you need to ask him directly. If he avoids answering then that in itself reflects a deeper issue.

It sounds like there are trust issues that run both ways.

This does sound hard though and I do hope you get some clarity. That clarity is going to come from your intuition and your husbands honest response though, not from strangers guesstimating (although some of them are probably right!). What’s more important is mutual understanding, effective communication and trust (or repairing trust if it has been broken).[/quote]

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