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[quote=Anonymous]Contrary to what other PPs have insinuated, almost everyone has something to sort out in terms of their childhood and unresolved issues. So I am suggesting therapy, but not because I am a jerk or because I think you are a jerk. But because it can be very helpful.

Example: my dad had serious rage issues so a lot of my parenting was based on the number one goal being not to ever lose my shit the way he did in the regular. But the problem was, every time I experienced any kind of anger or said something like “ok guys knock it off” I was WRACKED by guilt. I needed to adjust this mindset to be a better parent (and happier human) because obviously anger is part of the human experience.

Similarly in your post, I’m feeling your fear about your childhood. I’m seeing what you want NOT to happen more than I’m seeing what you want TO happen.

I think a therapist could help you feel more secure. It might help to articulate a few goals, feelings, and fears with someone impartial and supportive. [/quote]

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