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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, its an unpopular opinion but in some ways she's not wrong. I wouldn't go around saying it but absent medical issues like thyroid disorders (etc.), overweight and obese people really have little to no self restraint. They lack impulse control and dedication. It's working out and eating at a caloric deficit, not rocket science. Anyone can do it. My fatter friends always love blaming genetics, but that's not it. They eat like crap and feed crap to their kids so when the kids become fat they point and say, "see? Genetics!" No, it's your diet. [/quote] Who cares if she is right or wrong. Or if it is genetics or the food chain or lack of impulse control. She's being mean. Just because something is true doesn't mean you have to spout it out. When I get a gift I don't LOVE I don't expose all the criticisms I have of the gift (it's ugly! It's stupid!) but I just say "thank you, it was kind of you to think of me" and then I stop and I don't say "when you saw this hideous monstrosity." I'd call her out on it and ask her why she's being mean. Go from there. [/quote] But this was posted and health and medicine, not relationships. If she's mean and that's OP's issue with her than OP can simply unfriend.[/quote]
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