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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sleep, family time, time with friends, chores, ECs, etc? [/quote] - Short drive to school (private), so time not wasted there - [b]No job,[/b] focus is on sports and studies - Not many chores other than picking up after themselves (I was the same, we had a daily maid who did our laundry growing up and I am now [b]perfectly capable of keeping a great house, it's not hard to learn[/b]) - Close friends who play sports plus do other activities - Planning of schedule so as to maximize free time at school, etc. - Family dinners, breakfasts, and my husband and I being flexible with our work to be able to drive them to and from sports or spend time when they're free[/quote] #1 is the highlighted along with what is HIGH level family support. They do nothing but school, family&friends, etc. They dont have daily or weekly chores, arent responsible for spending money and/or taking care of siblings, they never worry about money or enough gas or clothes or food. And for the PP here - [b]are you stating that you keep a clean home along with a FT job and no outsourcing whatsoever[/b]? Its not that cleaning is hard to learn it is having to do it ALL by yourself. People who come from these type of families typically dont suddenly get the legs taken out from under them- they go to college and never have a job unless they WANT extra money or do it for their resume/internships, they go to med/grad school after having entire summers at an "internship" or lowly paid lab job/summer intensive where they study for the GRE or MCAT (paid for by parents) while living at home and getting taken on vacations, they get their living expenses paid for including housing, their residency is supplemented by parental support/housing/grocery delivery, etc. [/quote] DP. Don't many people do this? I don't think it's particularly hard for people who didn't contribute to housework as kids to learn. Once you've learned how to do the chores, all you need is time management skills and self-discipline. Also, you seem to have a lot of knowledge about the experiences of economically privileged people. How do you know this? [/quote]
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