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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it could work, but the things I'd keep an eye on are 1) is this heading towards marriage soon because at 32 you don't have time to waste if you want kids and 2) are there any red flags because most guys over 35 who aren't married have issues. It might be fine, but either things progress in a timely manner or you should cut bait. Good luck and I hope it works out.[/quote]

OP here. We have been dating for 6 months and he’s bringing up marriage. He has told me that he can see himself with me the longterm and wants to marry me. There has been no red flags. It has been very easy and comfortable with him. [/quote]

6 months is a very short time to see character flaws, regardless of the age. My exH described above and I were dating for 1.5 years before getting married. He showed character flaws 3 years into marriage (mood swings, impatience, screaming at me and toddler son, impatience with animals).

What I think was the only red flag when we dated that I didn’t “read” - his phrases how stupid it is for people to have dogs and always be tied up to the pet schedule.

If you were to bring a puppy into the house that pees and poops everywhere, would your boyfriend tolerate that? [/quote]

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