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This. Just date when your kid is with your ExH. It sounds like you're bringing your kid along to events that are for adults, not families. Not a good idea.[/quote]

Huh?  Not sure where you got that from, but regardless I think PP seems to know what she's doing.  I don't think there needs to be any minimum waiting period.  I'm a single mom, and while I'm not in a hurry for my kids to meet my boyfriend, I don't think it has to be any different from my kids meeting any other adult who's important to me.  We're all responsible adults here.  And like PP, I ultimately want the chance to model (and enjoy) a healthy relationship. [/quote]

I'm not suggesting that the pp introduced a serious bf to her daughter too soon. In fact, I think she would have to introduce them to see how he is with her kid (and how she is with his kids) before she could get too serious about him.

The part that concerns me is that she indicated that she introduces her daughter to guys she's casually dating during social events and frequently brings her daughter to social events with her friends. It sounds like these social outings are for grown ups, not a bunch of families getting together. That's not ok.[/quote]

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