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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I have realized that we aren't super close to his family or my family (other than my sister) and it has made us rethink our immediate family size. We currently have 3 kids who are 6 and under. We are debating about possibly having a 4th. We have realized that in the future what matters is our family unit and we have always wanted a large family. Would you have another or not? We are both 38 years old. [/quote] Forget about your relationships to your families of origin. It is irrelevant. You have 3 children already, brought into a burning world with shrinking resources and overpopulation. Thinking about THEIR LIVES, what they will endure in their lifetimes and how your families use of resources now impacts that, is having more kids a benefit to THEM, or just a selfish endeavor for you and your DH? You’ve more than replaced yourselves. Save some resources for others.[/quote]
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