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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just got out of the blue email from someone I had a relationship with 8y ago. Both married. “Misses talking.” How to respond?[/quote]

Has this kind of thing happened to others here? I was so surprised, did not expect AT ALL.[/quote]

This happened to me — a guy who I was crazy for but ultimately broke up with amicably. Different life paths, super young, etc. . Anyway, we had connected on FB years after we spilt up with no overtures, and then a couple of years later, he contacted me out of the blue with some really nice reminiscing. Both married for years, and the short back and forth was sweet and just…nice. Two months later, he had died. His death was shocking to me — I vaguely remember a heart issue when we were young — but I think he knew his time was up and he was reaching out one last time to somebody who was special at one point in his life. And I am forever grateful that he did, because it gives me comfort to know I wasn’t alone in how much the time we spent together meant.[/quote]

That is a sweet story. Its' a little strange that while you were having this exchange he never mentioned he was dying.[/quote]

It may not have been an expected death.  That is a sweet story.  I'm glad you were able to have that closure.[/quote]

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