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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just once, can we get an ‘I think my partner has ASD’ thread without it being that the partner is an awful person. 
ASD is genetic. If your spouse has it- your kids have it. And it’s awesome they’ll get to see you associating ASD with awful/demeaning. 
Sigh 
ASD doesn’t make people awful. Your spouse might be awful AND have ASD. [/quote]

I disagree that ASD is genetic. It has a genetic component, but it's a physical illness that can be treated. In some cases, no, it will not improve, but in other cases, biomedical interventions can result in a rapid improvement or even a cure.

I agree that OPs spouse is BPD or NPD, not ASD.

Read Walking on Eggshells. Your DH may not have all the traits, but he has some. It's a helpful book.

Yes, think about leaving. You do not have to put up with a spouse whose behavior makes you want to end your life.

Narcissists do this to you. The only cure for you is to get away from them.

A close friend was married to a narcissist. It was pure perfection at first, but deteriorated during the first year of marriage. By the third year of marriage, it was total Hell, and she finally had the courage to leave. No kids, fortunately, but she has scars. Her ex just went on with his life. He has no remorse, no empathy, no actual feelings. Narcissists care only about themselves and no one else. [/quote]

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