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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son is entering a private high school and has the opportunity to practice several days per week this summer with the JV and Varsity teams for his sport (for fun). 
He does not know anyone at the school.  He is PETRIFIED of going as he feels 1) he knows no one 2) most of the kids wil know each other 3) most will be older (he's a rising freshman and they're rising Fr, So, Jr. and Sr).
We tried yesterday and he was losing his mind in fear.  He couldn't get out of the car.

How easy (or hard) would this be for your kid?

My son has a lot of friends at this current school and on his current sports teams.  He's a social, friendly kid.  He's good at this sport.

I'm wondering how much of this is normal?  Or how much of this is clinical anxiety.  He has low level anxiety about anything new but this is next level.  I wonder if it's exacerbated by Covid (he has been in virtual school at home for a year---seeing about 8 friends very regularly---so not isolated but not in a larger social setting).

Would your kid be able to do this without skipping a beat?  Would it provoke some stress? Would he refuse to go?

Please be honest.

Thank you for any thoughts!

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This seems like a little more than just routine stress about a new school.  You might want to dig a little, see if there's something else going on.[/quote]

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