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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please do him a huge favor and divorce him[/quote]

I have actually said to him "I don't think I can be a good wife to you because I don't respect you" but he says he does NOT want a divorce. He thinks I should lower my expectations. [/quote]

I mean, duh?   What do you expect him to say?  “Yes, honey, that’s a great idea.  Let’s break up our family because you find me contemptible!”  Are you waiting for him to agree to the plan to move forward with it?

I would caution you on your expectations for a new partnership though.  If you think your life will be better without him than with him, divorce makes sense, but [b]if you need a new partner to be happy, you may very well be disappointed.  Plus you risk a lot of instability in your dd’s life.[/b]  [/quote]

I value relationship very much, which is why my disappointment in my marriage is so hard to live with. And yes, I am worried about instability in my DD's life and unrealistic expectations on my side. That is what I am weighing here. On the flip side I don't want to waste my life feeling like I am missing out on something so important to me (a good marriage) because I am afraid to make a change. [/quote]

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