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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]With cause and effect. There's a consequence for everything. Even a 15 months baby understand s that and things like no, stop please. Teach dicipline before someone else does. Stop spoiling your kids, it's just hurting them and thier teachers, nannies and every early educator[/quote] You teach respect best by modeling it. If you treat them without respect from a young age by "disciplining them", such as putting them in time out, they will become disrespectful. [/quote] Respect is so obvious... Dicipline is a wider area where it teaches respect, self care, empathy and care for your things around you. Show and explain. Every SCHOOL, CENTER, FAMILY CHILD CARES (Daycares) has DICIPLINE POLICIES. They just called it like that. Time out is no good. I don't say that or scream. Kids need to see you don't get all angry but you will give them the consequence of that bad behavior. just hold her hand to a 15 month old and let her sit down, and tell her sit and when you're done crying you are welcome to come back play with us. She was crying for a toy and other kids were fine but not her. She is overly attached to mom, we call it mamitis. Child can't even walk well because mom is holding her a lot with the first scream she does. Mom is just hurting the child and it will become harder the transitions. She noticed everyone was playing and having fun. She had her cry by yourself and understands that bad feelings like sadness, trantrums will go away. Then she stops crying and begins to play. I explained to her why she went to sit down. And then we all go happy and enjoy being good kids. Dicipline to babies is preparing them for toddlerhood. My kid almost 2years old knows how to pick up after herself, understands directions like wait please, wash your hands and then you can play with your toys, put your shoes on, gentle with yourself and gentle to others. Of course you have to show and tell... Babies can start being dicipline after 6months. Kids are smart, just talk to them. Even tho they don't speak words they understand and the older they get they understand more. Remember the first 3years are the most important years of a child's life. It sickens me when I see ignorant people who just thinks young kids are naive and plain stupid. Show respect by diciplining them.[/quote]
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