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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.[/quote]

This is both an emotionally immature and logically irrational response to OP’s concern. 
OP, your concern is valid. Any personal or business enmeshment with a past love interest, not to mention fiancé, is risky. Express your concern to your husband and that his consideration was troubling to you. Ask that he reflect on this. If he is open and accepts then the rest is taking a leap of faith. We all choose our marriages each and every day in order to grow in them and make them stronger. Sometimes things come across our path that test and try our marriages. This might be one of them. We make the right choice and learn from our increased awareness, or we make the wrong choice (hopefully a smaller one with reparable consequences), and again, we learn and strengthen from increased awareness. Don’t let this turn your concern to worry and then fixation, but do say what needs to be said and make any requests that honor your feelings and tour marriage. Then trust. [/quote]

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