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[quote=Anonymous]She is smart. I made the same decision with my boyfriend, who asked me to move in after a year. No move. We got engaged 6 months later and have been married for a decade now, very good marriage. I learned this lesson the hard way, living with a boyfriend in my 20s for 5 years. so much inertia. We probably stayed together years longer than we should have because we lived together. Also, I think when you are living together as a "test" you are much more judgmental of the other person. When you live together when you know you are committed (through engagement or otherwise), both of you are gentler and more problem solving oriented. the test theory is actually flawed because being committed changes the dynamics of your relationship.[/quote]
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