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[quote=Anonymous]When my first was born my mom was able to come and stay the night with our DC a couple nights a week she I could sleep a full night, and even I shared that with people literally nobody judged and everyone thought it was awesome. When my third was born my mom was not able to do this, and we hired a night nanny for two nights a week. It kept me sane because, unlike with my first, I could not nap during the day because I had my older kiddos to take care of. And yet, when I shared this info with people, I definitely got some judgmental comments. My point is, the judgement has nothing to do with you and is heavily wrapped up in an aversion to, or jealousy of, paying for childcare. That’s it. And by kid number three I just didn’t care about the judgement, but if I had, I could have easily told no one. Anyway, you do you![/quote]
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