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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fun AI. To experience “the deep” (authentic and meaningful emotional connection with other adults) you have to know/be willing to tread in deep waters. Can you? [/quote] Yes, I am perfectly fine with going deep and have that with a few friends. But it's rare I find someone I actually want to go really deep with (i.e. talk about traumas or whatever). [b]A lot of people simply arent that intelligent or insightful, ime.[/b] Wish I could find more people where there was a really deep energetic match, between what we think is fun, compelling, interesting, challenging, etc. it always seems like one of those things is just... out of sync. [/quote] This tells me that you're the problem -- not them. [/quote] Well, I mean, I have a tested very high IQ, so maybe I am "the problem", statistically speaking. I certainly don't find many people that I find I can truly have an intellectually exciting conversation with. And it's disappointing, because I'm an extrovert, and would love to be able to "go there" with more people. But I can't control my IQ, my intellectual threshold, or anything like that. And frankly, settling for being friends with people who aren't as intelligent has been really unfulfilling to me. So maybe these kinds of gifts are isolating. I wish there was a solution. [/quote] NP. I’m really sorry, but genuinely intelligent people just don’t talk about themselves and their IQ like this. I think you’re probably at the same level as your current friends, you just believe that you are superior to them, and that causes problems.[/quote] Well, no offense but I dont really care because I've been tested multiple times and it's been documented by various test scores. So unless there's been some kind of widespread fluke in these standardized tests that apply only to me, then yeah, I am intelligent. And I fail to realize why that's such a big deal? Plenty of people are talented in various areas, but people seem to be really aghast if someone openly says they're smart. Which is so bizarre. Obviously there's smart people and dumb people and people good at sports and people bad at sports and people who are physically attractive and people who arent but it seems we arent allowed to say so, even on an anonymous forum? Really baffling. [/quote] No offense taken. It’s just that if you’re anywhere north of 20 and you’re still talking about how high your IQ is, you are not remotely as intelligent as you think you are.[/quote] Well if people are going to take the tired DCUM route of saying that no one on this board can be 1) attractive 2) intelligent 3) young looking 4) hip 5) good in bed, or whatever else, simply because they said they were, then it's time to trot out the quantifiable data that is inarguable. I know that's the standard DCUM move- "anyone who says they're ______ obviously isn't!!!1!!!" but it's really pretty silly. Statistically speaking, of course there will be people on this board who fit into such categories and are also aware of it. [/quote] You need to brush up on your critical thinking skills, OP. The above, in addition to your other responses, confirm that you are not at the level that you believe yourself to be, and I’ll leave it at that. Good luck to you.[/quote] I appreciate it and wish it right back to you. Again, my intelligence is confirmed by independent, reputable sources, though certainly people's input, fancies, and the time they take to type out their own imaginings about a situation are always appreciated, provided it was put through with good intent. Enjoy your weekend![/quote]
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