Reply to Would you be concerned if your DD planned to marry her high school or college sweetheart

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would you be concerned if your DD planned to marry her high school or college sweetheart "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that it depends entirely on the people involved and their ability to grow, evolve and compromise with each other.  Some of the happiest and strongest marriages I know are from people who married their college sweethearts (HS more iffy).  The most problematic marriages I have seen are from women who decided in their mid to late 20s and early 30s to "settle" and marryguys who had lots of red flags just because their biological clocks were ticking and they wanted to have a child.   Better to freeze ones eggs than to have to co-parent with a dysfunctional ExH.   [b]I know I will get flamed for this, but based upon all of my friends, I will say that I think the biggest predictor for marital longevity is whether your own parents stayed married (and were relatively happy together over the long run).[/b]  [/quote]

Yikes.  You should get flamed.   Of all the anecdotal evidence I have seen, people from the most "stable" two-parent non-divorced homes have been the ones to get divorced (because they marry too early).  And the women who waited til late 20s/early 30s to get married are the most stable.  But again, my observations are anecdotal.

I, personally, am in a very stable marriage (I married in my 30s) and my parents were divorced when I was in HS.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics