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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just yuck. How selfish of you to bring your AP partner to your kids’ games. You really have no self respect. You had an affair with your husband’s friend and feel like you should some how be excused for this (“water under the bridge”). That’s not how it works OP. I guess once selfish, always selfish. [b]Your husband is a nice guy.[/b][/quote]

NP.  We really don't know this.  When I made threads about my prior marriage, lots of posters gave me "permission" to have an affair.  I've seen that several times on here.  Yet every person who then does have an affair is vilified.  Often an affair is the least-worst option for protecting kids from a divorce while still finding a shred of happiness for oneself.  Life is not black and white -- which people seem to grasp when details are spelled out, as in prior threads on my case, but then have amnesia about the next time they hear the word "affair."

And don't get me started on the poster who thinks her parents' romantic decisions are any of her damn business.  Presumably she has no idea what went on in her parents' bedroom.  If her mom had gotten a divorce first, she'd be whining about being an ACOD and her abandonment issues.  Who's the self-centered one again?[/quote]

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