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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How are you confused by this? They’re obviously talking about you. Im guessing Michelle asked “are you in love with her”
He played it both ways said “I don’t hate her” and then pause and clarify that he’s not in love with you “it’s not like that”

Ditch him he’s obviously in love still with his ex.[/quote]

How is that him playing it both ways?[/quote]

It's not it's totally fine. In fact, OP should never question anything..The bar is in hell for some of you.[/quote]

I never said it was fine. I was genuinely asking how was his response playing it both ways?[/quote]

I’m the original poster, he’s playing it both ways because he didn’t say “I’m not in love with her” I bet you he knew she was nearby so he’s trying to be ambiguous like I don’t hate her. And when Michelle digs in, so you love her or it’s serious?, he says it’s not like that.

This gives OP “hope” if she hears this when he explains it, like he wasn’t sure of his feelings, but we all know he’s in love with Michelle. [/quote]

PP, I see what you’re saying.  You don’t think it’s because he didn’t want to tell his ex “yes” I like her to spare her feelings so he went with “I don’t hate her”? [/quote]

Yeah you put it better, now this I bet will make OP feel better, but if a guy likes you, he’ll say it and own it. He then backtracked with “it’s not like that” when the ex asked him to clarify. I legit heard similar conversation a few years ago with one of my close friends (he was the guy and ended up breaking up with the girl he was “not hating”) [/quote]

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