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[quote=Anonymous]Okay so I’ll chime in because I’m like your sister, maybe not to that extend but still.

We have no family nearby and haven’t had a time alone since kids were born, I complain I want alone time and date night but know that there will be meltdowns so I don’t even want to go through it.

I’m obsessed about the food we eat, family members have color cancer and other types of illnesses, that I hope and desperately want to control and avoid so I’m hoping things like food and what we put in our bodies are as safe as possible. Yes up to date on all vaccinations bc I want to control illness. Here is how you can help, try finding easy recipes or some good healthy takeout, and they’ll welcome it. I know i did when I got smarter  about reading labels.

We don’t have elaborate cups but I don’t reuse cups, for myself included. There’s spit and food particles and smells, it’s disgusting and I won’t have it. Now this is where you could help, when my mom visited she put them in the dishwasher not knowing it was hand wash only and they actually...turned out clean and great. So I now do them by dishwasher.

I never sleep trained and I regret it. I hoped things will get better but they never did so three year old still wakes up a few times crying, not able to settle, etc. we don’t cosleep but I get it, you’ve screwed up the sleep and now is too late to fix so you keep hoping it will be improve.

I try the whole compassionate parenting acknowledging feelings or letting them have their feelings out, so I’ve never done timeouts. I was spanked as a kid and sent to time out and I felt very ashamed. Yes there’s tantrums that timeouts may help but I don’t want that.

Now all this to say....you shouldn’t judge because everyone makes different choices, they may not be right or make sense to you, but you can only offer support, acknowledgement, and help where you can, otherwise there’s nothing else to do.[/quote]

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