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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the PP who divorced the closeted husband.  I am *shocked* by how oblivious most of you are.  Everything the OP laid out is a red flag that I knew about even before having personal experience with the subject.  When I found out my ex was sucking d***, my internal response was literally "but he's not homophobic and he doesn't have gay friends, so he can't be!"  Those, together, are so often indicators.[/quote]

Same.

And OP, if you find out he really is gay, it’s okay to get divorced. It’s okay to want to be with somebody of the same sexual orientation or at least that a marriage with somebody of a different sexual orientation isn’t going to work.

This is really getting ahead of things but there is this gay Mormon guy, Josh Weed, and he and his ex wife have been really open about their marriage and divorce and journey. They are such good friends and really sweet with each other, and the divorce was such a hard but happy thing for them both. If you find out your husband is gay, it’s really worth checking out.

https://joshweed.com/episodes/[/quote]

This guy knew he was gay at 16 and told his wife he was gay before they married. [/quote]

And? The point of bringing him up isn’t to say his experience is the exact same as every other gay guy who marries a woman, just that a marriage like that that ends in divorce isn’t a failure and can be a really beautiful thing. As an ex-Mormon, I have seen it happen a ton.

Then again there are some people who seem to do okay in mixed-orientation marriages. [/quote]

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