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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's unquestionably a thing in the highly educated, UMC, elite professional circles that people like Liz Bruenig run in[/quote]

This.

And if you were in a different socio-economic bracket in a different part of the country, having your kids in your mid to late 30s would be a thing.

It's not personal.  You're just going against the herd a bit in terms of timing and people will endlessly comment on people who are outside the norm because [b]it makes insecure people feel forced to question their own decision making.[/b]  If everyone does the same thing, it feels safer.[/quote]

When I see a 39-year old with a 13-year old I am not remotely insecure about my own decision to wait until 32 to have my kids (who ended up being twins so I didn't have any after that). I'm very happy with the age at which I got to have my kids. I had so much fun through my 20's and early 30's and once I had my kids I was settled enough in my career to be able to have a flexible but still high-paying job. Win win win as far as I'm concerned. Not that everyone has to want what I have, but I say that to contradict your statement that I am remotely insecure about anyone's choice to have a child year before I did. [/quote]

lol no one envies people who have twins at 32 anyway so who cares[/quote]

DP. Are you kidding? This would have been ideal for many of my friends. One pregnancy at an age when lots of people are having their first kid, two kids, done. I'm sure infant twins are a handful, but so is basically any combination of young kids.[/quote]

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