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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your husband aware that you want to divorce? If so, how does he feel about dividing stuff?

That’s probably the starting point since everything else stems from that. [/quote]

No, I did not share that decision with him yet. In terms of dividing there is really not much to divide other than the house which we own jointly and to buying of which we contributed equally. I do not care about any of the other stuff. He can have the furniture, the car and whatever he wants. The main issue will be the custody. I think he will go aggressively after trying to get full custody as he is very close to DC.[/quote]

It's unlikely that he'll get full custody. Most judges grant 50/50. You'd have to be abusive or just a flat out terrible parent to get less than that.

You should discuss with him your plan to separate and come to an amicable decision first. [b]There may not be a need for a lawyer if he agrees. [/b]If he doesn't, you'll need to retain one ASAP. [/quote]

[b]OP here. Wouldn't it still be wise to have something in writing before I move out?[/b][/quote]

Yes! Don't discuss with the man you plan to divorce. Follow the legal plan set forth by an attorney. Don't dabble in the little details. Split assets 50/50, custody 50/50. Then discuss with the man you plan to divorce. The discussion should be focused on what's best for the child you both love.  [/quote]

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