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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][i]This is very much not the case with [b]my bf[/b] and his exwife. S[b]he is reactive and controlling[/b], esp when she has any hint that I am involved in plans or whatever. S[b]he is very inflexible [/b]on the schedule (I get that this is how some divorces are and have a right to be.) But the issue is his lack of wanting to fight with her and how it affects our relationship. I truly love this man. We have known each other for years. But I am reaching my breaking point in terms of boundaries.[/i]
Are you actually reading anything you wrote?
You are a girlfriend! That's it. She is the mother of his kids whom he puts first and their kids. As he should be.
For years you have known each other? What does that mean? You were his affair? You knew him when he was married in some capacity?
Why can't you have some self respect and do what is best for you and your kids?
Honestly, your BOYFRIEND and his ex sound like great parents. You and your dh sound like kids come last, after all your girlfriends and boyfriends and your vacation is to put your boyfriend as a priority?
If I was your kid, I would hate you guts and your boyfriends guts. I would know that I am the last thing in mom's head.
So needy and insecure.[/quote]

He should put his kids first, not his ex wife.  They are ex's for a reason.  Why do you always assume Dad cheated?  In some situations, like my husband's, it was the ex who cheated and left to be with the AP.  You are assuming the ex is a great parent.  Great parents work together and if you take what OP is saying, the ex wife isn't working together and Dad just humors mom so he can see his kids.[/quote]
Once again, you op or someone in similar situation? Yes, we know, OP's DH cheated and she moved on to a new guy really fast. And everyone told her, hey, slow down, put your kid first.
As for your hang up, if you are not op, ex wife and ex dh are working together. That is exactly why OP is upset.[/quote]

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