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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing - your two complaints in your post, that she's inflexible about the schedule, and that he's not willing to fight with her, both sound like GOOD things. You can plan around a predictable schedule. Fighting with your ex when there are kids involved is almost never a good idea.

So in order to convince me that she's the problem, and not you, you're going to have to provide more evidence. [/quote]

Well I did in one post. And she is flexible when it suits her. He agrees to her changes. She never reciprocates. [/quote]

She doesn't have to reciprocate. He doesn't have to agree to her changes either. The job of both parents of those 3 kids is to stick to the set schedule. If a particular set of dates don't work for YOU, that's not her problem. Make your summer plans for whatever is in their schedule and then your boyfriend will simply have to hold that boundary. If he is not able to do that, then I think you probably need to reconsider whether he is ready to combine families with you. To an extent, minimizing conflict with the ex is important but it sounds like he is unwilling to prioritize your relationship and y'all's blended family over avoiding conflict with her. That's not a good sign, in my experience.[/quote]

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