Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Has anyone left a narcissist?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The key is to go no contact. If there are kids involved, very low contact. Do not argue. Do not react to anything he says. Be flat. Look up gray rock. Narcissists don't care if you're loving or hateful, they love a reaction whether it's negative or positive. What you leave, don't offer up any information about your life. Keep communication as brief as possible. None of this is easy, but you can do it. [/quote] +1000 Came here to post this. The less engagement, the better. Set clear rules for yourself: -Communicate in writing so that you have a trail -Always wait at least 24 hours to respond to texts, emails. -Let calls always go to voice Mail. Listen and decide when you will respond by text. Again, wait 24 hours. -If a response can be said in 5’words, see if you can get it down to 3. Less is best. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
