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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don’t have kids he’ll find a new target after the divorce.

If you do have kids, he will use them as pawns to control you via custody, manipulation, hurt them. You will suffer post-separation abuse, but you can be ready for that.

Mine was a bipolar ASD narc spouse, fully diagnosed when he went in to the test to “show everyone he was perfect and everyone else is nuts.” [/quote]

I am absolutely  he will bankrupt me and be very uncooperative. And I feel he would continue to be the crap father he is. It breaks my heart that his own children will see how little he cares about them. [/quote]

Yes, mine showed up to settlement two years after seperation with 200K in credit card debt, he very pointedly tried to bankrupt me despite his own high salary.  He tried to have the kids and I evicted from our home (I make nearly 400K), he cancelled car insurance without warning, pillaged our 401K and kids bank accounts, lied about me and cut me off to his entire family (MY family for 15 years), friends, community. He tried to take full custody of our kids. He has charged me with contempt post divorce for calling him a douchebag. He demanded jail time.

In other words, it will suck. BUT, not seeing his disgusting self in my bathroom, or hearing him call me crazy, or the kids having to watch him verbally abuse me, or coming home to an angry drunk......all pretty amazing. Its the worst thing I've ever gone through and probably broke me forever in terms of trust and joy, but at least i"m free.

I have primary custody. [/quote]

You go girl. That's how it's done.[/quote]

It is hard to get primary custody. She is lucky.[/quote]

DP that went through hell. I have sole.

It happens.[/quote]

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