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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]We teach ours that trashy is trashy.[/b] The conversation did not start with our daughter, but with our son who decided that he wanted to wear tight white wifebeaters. For both shorts must cover the butt cheek and then some. Clothes must fit - I shouldn’t be able to see the outlines of private parts (again, mostly for son, whose sweats/shorts can be too tight - that one is just because he doesn’t toss too small clothes). You can have standards, OP.[/quote] How lovely of you. We teach our children not to make value judgments based on what clothes a person is Wearing. We also talk about why we don't like certain styles, but we don't use disparaging terminology to make our points.[/quote] That’s very woke of you, but people make snap judgments on first impressions. They may not say something out loud, but they’re thinking it. [/quote] Hon, I'm not sure that you understand what "woke" means. So just stop. And frankly, we do not cater to 3d party prejudices in our home. If someone is going to judge someone for their shorts and top, and think like a judgmental a-hole, they've given my kid a huge gift. And my kid has dodged a bullet.[/quote]
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