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[quote=Anonymous]As snarky as the person who told you to work on the marriage was, I agree with him/her. If your husband can be a good dad, he can also be a good husband, he just needs to be told and learn what you want. Nobody really tells you this, you are just expected to know which really isn’t fair. What do you want to talk about with your husband? He’s not a girl, he won’t talk with you the way a woman would. Know this and what it means. I’m not a fan of yours because you haven’t even discussed how you’re feeling with your husband. You seem to expect him to seek full custidy which he’ll only get if you’ve done something bad involving kids. Have you? It’s an odd thingto worry about given what you’ve written. And, no I don’t believe that you are an anxious person who loves her kid, I think there is something going on with you that you know about which may be why you haven’t talked to a lawyer yet. As for your kid, he won’t be happy going from house to house. Maybe he will “just have to live with it” but he won’t like you too much once he figures out you left his father for some vague unhappiness reason. Your dating pool won’t be like it was in your 20’s. Know this. Right now, I doubt you have the skills to be in a successful relationship with a new partner. Try with your husband since he sounds like a nice guy, you’re already married and you have a kid together. [/quote]
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