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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP.  Partly because of this issue and partly because of other issues, I feel like there is a strong chance we will divorce eventually.  Probably in the 3-5 year horizon.  I am waiting of the kids to get a little older and for us to get out of debt.  Maybe it won't happen, as bitter as I am there will always be a fair amount of inertia (again, primarily kids and money) to making such a change.  My guess is that at some point, if we don't divorce, I will have an affair.  To be honest, I feel entitled.  I suppose if I do that, and she catches me, I can argue that we are even - one betrayal for another.  We'll see.  Appreciate the thoughtful comments here, and am surprised (pleasantly) to find a mostly non-critical audience.

As for the hormonal issue the PP raised, it could be.  I did ask her to see if that was the case at one point.  She said she'd look into it but never did.  [/quote]

"one betrayal for another"? OP, that's no way to live your life. This is sick. I hope you insist on your wife getting the help that other posters recommend, but you need to get some help, too. [/quote]

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