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[quote=Anonymous]There were at least two "other women" in my marriage and I will tell you why I hated them.

Woman #1 was my neighbor and pretended to be my friend.  She knew we had a baby.  She was older, divorced, her kids were grown, she too should have known how difficult and stressful it is on a marriage to have a new baby.  I did many things to be helpful to this woman, such as giving her a winter coat when she didn't have one (moved from FLA) or allowing her to sleep in my home when her AC was not working.  She had many a dinner at my table.  She babysat my baby (at first). When I started to be uncomfortable with their "friendship" and told my now-ex that he had to end it, she colluded with him in continuing it and covering it up.  She knew what they were doing was threatening a family and that did not stop her.

Now, do I blame JUST her? No way.  My ex is 100% responsible for what he did and he is paying the price.  He is divorced, lost his home, lost his kids.... his life is a shambles.  But she is ALSO 100% responsible for choosing to continue to play a role that she knew was damaging a family.  I guess if I knew that my presence in someone else's life was in any way harmful, that person would never hear from me again.  Also, my husband was in the throes of a difficult marital crisis.  She took advantage of his vulnerability to puff herself up with the power of luring a man away from his marriage.  Does that excuse him?  No way!

The second woman I hate because she's a hypocrite. She was a CHRISTIAN MINISTER in a ministry that specializes - wait for it - in teaching women to be MORE BIBLICAL WIVES AND MOTHERS.    I busted them as she was getting on a plane from TX to meet my ex at a hotel for a little boot knockin.  She is a SAHM (I have to work my ass of WOHM) with a rich husband who takes care of her, has no idea that she's a whore and she lives in  a mcmansion.

Both of these women live completely consequence-free for their involvement in the destruction of a family.  I guess I think it's one thing if you are just having a relationship with a married man.  But when you know there are BABIES and that your actions are threatening to destroy a family..... both parties, the straying spouse and TOW, should be held accountable.[/quote]

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