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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you were a man you'd probably been seen as tough, confident and a leader. Only women have to get along.  Signed, another woman who doesn't come off well because she usually speaks her mind and doesn't have time for chit-chat.[/quote]
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That abrasive, agressive label for those of us with two legs instead of three is annoying as heck.  I feel for you OP but I also applaud your attempt to make it right. I'm too old and surly to give a rat's arse but I'm also quite good at what I do and I am well respected at work.  I have super high standards so the people who are working as hard or harder understand and don't judge; the lazy people are the ones who have an issue because I'm constantly pushing them to raise the quality of their work.  It helps that I work with all men.  I love it.[/quote]

Oooh, this exactly. The smart competent people like me just fine. I’ve been told I need to change my style because I intimidated a new hire because I was so smart and picked things up so fast it made him feel inferior. Wtf?[/quote]

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