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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We haven't had sex in 5 years. It seems a shame to toss a 20 year relationship over sex, but there is just no attraction there and I'm not sure I can live this way anymore.[/quote] ... no sex “with each other” you meant. Let’s be honest: normal healthy men don’t remain celibate.[/quote] Some men have low T and no interest. I had no sex 8 out of 10 years. No cheating. Divorced. But I agree, NORMAL men can’t go without for 5 years.[/quote] I think you would be surprised by how many men go without it. I remember in college about 50-60% of my friends had no sex in a year. There was another like 10% who were hooking up every month and maybe one in a relationship. I guess this is another stereotype women push. [/quote] One year is not that bad. 5 is horrible. Also being single is different. Being partnered up it is more frustrating to go without sex for years. [/quote] In my experience one year is unbearable. By year three you're used to it, more or less. I guess we'll see at year five, if it keeps going like this. Love my spouse very much. Wish they'd get the health issues sorted so we weren't sexless. But not willing to cheat or leave. [/quote]
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