Reply to Is it fair to ask our nanny to be on standby for one weekend?

Forum Index » Childcare other than Daycare and Preschool

Reply to "Is it fair to ask our nanny to be on standby for one weekend? "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I remember your post. I would bet anything you’re still annoyed at your nanny for asking to use sick days. And you’re trying to subtly get back at her. You do not need a nanny if you and your husband are both home. You’re just being low key vindictive. If you truly want her to be on call, give her 100 bucks and then pay time and a half if you ask her to come in. [/quote]

+1 sorry op but I remember your post and I’m glad you let the nanny take her days but it kind of seems like you feel like she owes you now, which she does not. Between the two of you I really think you should be ok. It’s unlikely both of you will have terrible reactions. My husband just had his second dose TJ is week and he was tired but he could definitely parent. Obviously everyone is different but it’s likely both of you won’t be bedridden. It’s probably ok if you want to pay her to be on standby but it just strikes me that you’re asking about this after your other post [/quote]

+10

(isn’t it ironic that she expected her nanny to work after her shot but wants to take time off herself?)[/quote]

Yes, this is messed up. And her thought was that if the nanny came in and felt sick, the nanny would be able to drive herself home, despite feeling ill, yet two parents together would be too sick to function.  SMH.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics