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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn't receive anything from any of my grandparents. It never would have occurred to me to have conditioned my love on whether they would leave me anything in their will.  OMG.

OP, you are lucky enough to have a living grandmother who has a relationship with your children.  I would be so grateful just for that.  And here you are, decided to "pull back" on her because she has changed her will?  WTAF?  Shame on you![/quote]

But would you feel hurt if your grandparent promised you something then later told you essentially "you know what, nevermind, you're not really worth the effort." And wouldn't give a reason? This is different from what you're describing.

It's really hard when this happens, because decent people, like op, just have to suck it up. Can't confront the grandma or even gently broach the subject lest you come off as someone who has, as you put it, conditioned their love on money. So you just have to deal with the emotions that come with being told that someone you love decided, without explanation, to take back a promise. [/quote]

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