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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

DH isn't into counseling. Not happening. In terms of more specific examples of what's going on, most of the incidents are little things that just chip away at your relationship over the years. Lots of disagreements on things we should be able to agree on or little jabs at things I just don't do correctly or express the right way. For example, I've suggested multiple times, let's go away for one night. We can get local relatives to watch the kids. Easy. He disagrees, and not only claims he doesn't want to impose on people but also we could do the same thing we'd do away for less money. (Why bother driving to XX when we could find a restaurant here, or better yet, just cook at home). But it isn't about the stupid meal. It's about getting a breather by getting away from the kids and not having to do dishes. To him, there's no issue. To me, there's a big issue. When we do talk about trips, same thing. He has his own ideas of where HE wants to go (not using we, but I). If I suggest going somewhere he has no interest in, he tells me, well you can just go there yourself then. Same thing if we get an invite to visit friends. If they're not his friends, no interest in going. He's usually that way with most invitations from people who I'm friends with.

Other things... I'll express a differing political opinion and he'll disagree by turning it into a cutting personal attack that ends with, what's wrong with you, you're so callous. Huh? Feels like he was just looking for something to go after me on, even if it's really small.

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OP, I don’t think you owe PP any specific examples. You didn’t ask if you should divorce; if it’s unbearable - do it. My parents stayed together and damaged us by  not splitting.[/quote]

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