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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a woman who must have a man's soul. DH does all the right things -- walks, kind convo, flowers -- but is very low libido. I just cannot connect on the deepest level without sex. I'm closer to 50 than 40 and still think about it daily. I have been very open with DH about my needs over the years. We have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy that I hope will get us through the long term. Compassion for each other is key.[/quote] Same situation, same agreement. All marriages need intimacy. Women more than men seem to fulfill thst intimacy in nonsexual ways but some like us are more like men and need sexual touch. Both are normally, one isn't better than the other. The people on here that dismiss sexual needs as optional are usually the ones shocked when they are sexually betrayed. [/quote] You know who is shocked (blindsided) when betrayed? People having regular sex with doting husbands. Talk about a complete mind f@ck. I think if you are in a shitty marriage or a sexless one with lots of strife and resentment it would not be as life altering as those that were happy and in love. Studies bear that out.[/quote]
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