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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My group of 5 college friends is meeting next weekend for two of the friend's bdays. They decided they want to meet outdoors at a rather expensive place with a fixed-price menu. [b]Two people cannot make i[/b]t, but I can -- meaning it's me and the two birthday friends. I have looked at the menu, and truly, it is not in my budget right now to float the group. I agreed on the spot when they brought it up two weeks ago, but now, looking ahead, it will stretch me to pay for everyone's meal. Would it be rude to bring a small gift (flowers, something smaller and personal) and then everyone pays her own share? I have had some unforeseen expenses this month. I know they have their heart set o this spot, so I do not want to be a kill joy, so I am hoping it's not out of line to go dutch...ideas??[/quote]

Likely the two people couldn't afford it either and dropped out. Drop out as well. Don't be the sucker. [/quote]

NP and I'm sure this is what happened. You know your friends so I'm guessing you think they want to be treated to an expensive meal, which is incredibly rude and unfair of them. You have two choices - either make up a lie and don't go or say "I can't afford this restaurant, but I would love to treat you to a glass of champagne at the bar before or after your meal so that I can give you your gifts."
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