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Reply to "Please advise - FIL not in touch with his mother (20 uears) and I want to bridge their gap"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They may be making terrible choices, but they are their choices to make. And this is the result of long-standing and entrenched dysfunction - you’re being a bit naive imagining your potential impact - if it were that easy, 20 years wouldn’t have gone by. They are grown adults and this is not your role.[/quote] This. One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to insert themselves into major family dysfunction and assuming they can fix it with a quick "we love you and miss you." It's like you are taking a house with a poor foundation that crumbled to the ground and then flooded and you go in with scotch tape determined to prop it up.[/quote]
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