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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I think sometimes difficult is a code word for I don't like my kid or they aren't perfect in my eyes or not like me.[/b] My sister got straight A's in school and was very similar them.  I tried hard to please.  Helped around the house (she didn't), didn't party but never could get straight A's.  Nothing I did was ever good enough and there was always a triangle with my sibling and parents.

SN -  my child was late on all their developmental stages and couldn't communicate verbally or understand.  Knew to get help and find different ways to  make it work.  Many many hours of therapies and help (and child came out just fine).  You have to take the time to know your child, try many different things to find ways to make them work, not pit kids against each other, spend time with each one and value who they are.[/quote]

this is my case exactly. Kid is easy, I know it, but very different from me. Not a people pleaser. Not nice and polite with adults (very reserved, to the point of seeming rude). Very selective in his friendships. Somewhat pessimistic. Doesn't like achieving/hard work/challenge. 
The only thing similar to me is his propensity of words and playing with them/joking. 
But in other things he is easy and I know it. He is just very different. [/quote]

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