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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - I have avoided telling DS the truth thus far because I don't see how that information about his father is helpful. I realize he will probably figure it out eventually and I don't plan to lie if he asks directly, but I don't feel great about offering it up otherwise. It's his father's responsibility to tell him, in my opinion.

That's a good question about leverage. I will have to speak with my attorney. Do you have any ideas?[/quote]

Restrictions on how soon kids can be introduced to next partners can be included in the amicable agreement. Your leverage is threatening with contentious divorce and lengthly (especially in covid) hearings if he tries to introduce her even BEFORE you are divorced! This is totally unethical.
You can also restrict his access to his son, and just tell that son doesn't want to see him/her. Then he can try get pre-divorce custody arrangement via court. Hearings are not 8-12 months away for all cases like that.  [/quote]

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