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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pick up the phone and call the woman.

Seriously, you're going to have to deal with her eventually. Ask her about herself, her plans, etc. You are not calling as a bitter ex-wife but as the mother of a child who is going to be staying there, maybe.

If she isn't mature enough to have a conversation about your kids new environment, she isn't mature enough to host your kid. [/quote]

No, don't do this.  Its up to  your ex to make the connection.  I have zero interest in talking to my husband's ex given how she treated him.  If she calls and needs something, I'll take care of it but otherwise she burnt that bridge on how she treats him (she's made nasty comments to the kids about me but nice to my face).  She cheated, she left with her AP and held the kids hostage.  But, regardless, you always take the higher ground.  Its reasonable to tell Dad she is not to babysit but you don't call her and handle this.  This is between ex and girlfriend.  They have to figure it out.  You tell ex he needs a bedroom, bed, some books/toys and clothing for the child during his time there.   He needs to go buy it, not you (and i only say that as I buy everything in our home).[/quote]

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