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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here,

Follow up question, if you made a decision that your kids would be supervised with their other parent.  How did you explain that to them?  Supervision would be by members of his family, so as natural as possible, but my kids are still going to notice. [/quote]

You kicked your husband out and at best will only allow supervised visits.  You are making them choose you by default.  If it goes to court it could backfire.  [/quote]

Sometimes that’s necessary.[/quote]

Ok, well then own up to it and stop playing victim.  However its impossible to know if its real or OP is just angling to get the house and custody of the kids.  But, either way, she is making the kids choose by default so stop pretending otherwise.[/quote]

It's an anonymous post on the internet.  You'll never know whether what I say is true.

It's not "either way".  If there are mental health concerns significant enough that DH's family agrees with me that he shouldn't be alone with his own children, then I think it's safe to assume that if there's a divorce I'll be hoping to get custody.

I'm not sure how asking how to support my kids' continuing relationship with their other parent is "playing victim"?

-- OP  [/quote]

If you will not let them see him except maybe a rare occasion, they will not continue to have a realistic ship. [/quote]

My kids have seen him every day since we’ve been apart, just with a trusted adult present.[/quote]

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