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[quote=Anonymous]You two are a bad match because you differ greatly in a childcare approach and just as you might be overdisciplinning their kid whily in your care, she might be ruining your style of parenting  while your kid is at her place alone and  will oick up all the behaviors and get used to getting away with his way all the time.

It is not that pne of you is more right here, each person  raises kids diferently. Some let kids do anything others set tuled and enforce.

You really can not expect other person to  bend to your rules just as you should not impose on  dizciplinning their kid into your standards.

Gere is why you  need to stop the kid swapping stuff..
1. Because your kid will soon start missbehaving mirroring  his  friend
2. Because it is easy to mess kid up and very hard to undo
3. Because  you can not handle their kid
4. Because you  can not accept their kid as they are
5. Because their free range paernting is bad for your style
6 Because doon your kid will learn to curse
7 Because soon your kid will hate you in a learned  behavior way when you will enforce any rules
8 Because  your resentment is high and will get worse once you will start notticing damage to your parenting style that will come soon

It may feel that convenience is worth the stress but  in a long run it is not wort it. Ask those who lived through this..
While you should not judge  other parenting styles you need to  be aware that they affect your kid so unless you are okay with the other parents style dont take their kid in and dont leave your kid there.

You are  saving yourself a  lot of problems. Ubavodable ones if you continue.

How to go from here is  easy once you know what you can and can not accept, you will find the right words.

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