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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's those girls that pretend to have interests because they think that guys will like them. Like girls who are like "oh, I love camping" (when they really hate it) or "I think playing video games for 14 hours on Saturday is cute!" (when they really think it's ridiculous" or "oh, my favorite food is steak!" (when really they like salads, or pasta or something).

Fits in the same category of trying to be something you're not to "catch" some kind of societally-objective "good mate" while completely missing what actually matters in a relationship like compatibility and mutual respect. [/quote]

That's a Cool Girl - or a Faux Cool Girl. I don't know if she's the equivalent of the Nice Guy, though. I think the PP who described the Woman Who Has It All But Can't Find A God Man sounds more right. There's an anger and a bitterness underneath each of these - a resentfulness that people who are less than you (less nice, less "having it all") have managed to eke out a life with another person while you, who has so much to offer, has not. In both cases, I think the person feels entitled to a partner who is "better" than the people who actually do express interest in them.[/quote]

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