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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who has custody, OP?

At my age, most of the men I date have kids, and the ones who claim their exes are "crazy" but who have less than 50% custody are the ones that get the biggest side-eye from me.

So, your wife is a mean, controlling, narcissistic. lunatic but you left your three kids with her forever?

Pass. [/quote]

Its very hard to get 50/50 if the Mom doesn't agree or a big court battle.  You need to talk to friends and others and find out the real story.  My husband's ex's AP's ex (got that) called one day to talk to my husband to ask for money and I happened to answer and she verified everything and was calling desperate as her kid needed something and the AP ex wouldn't pay child support.  I paid as multiple people told me the same thing.  Sometimes its true.[/quote]

Not true. It’s very hard for mom to get sole legal or sole physical (or both). It’s usually the custody evaluator that figures out dad is an abusive ass and doesn’t recommend dad have custody. I’m sure my ex tells all his new girlfriends that I’m a horrible person (he tells our child that!) but he’s the one making the custody evaluator said was too selfish to effectively parent. [/quote]

The truth is probably somewhere in between.  It is still very hard depending on the state and judge.  There is still a huge bias for mom's to get custody and child support is based off custody.[/quote]

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