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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]for my DW to wear lingerie more than 1x per year, and leave the lights on so I can actually enjoy the visual of her how unbelievably hot and sexy she looks (and is).  and yes, I've told her this (the compliment) repeatedly over the years and after 3 kids.[/quote]

Lingerie feels so silly. Does your wife even feel sexy in it?  It’s not going to have the effect that you’d like. I imagine you’d like her to wear it and feel good in it. If she doesn’t like it and doesn’t think she looks good in it (lights off), even if she puts it on isn’t not like she will strut around the room in it.  My DH asks for this sometimes too - but with more of a dance/-act with it. I don’t do it, because I feel ridiculous. I’m not a stripper for a reason. It feels so humiliating to me. [/quote]

It doesn’t feel humiliating to be but I can see why it would make you feel that way, and it definitely does feel silly! I haven’t danced in a club for years and wearing lingerie feels both awkward and more vulnerable that I’m comfortable with. Luckily my DH doesn’t want me to do something I’m not into. There are so many ways to have fun and enjoy each other that don’t involve making myself feel uncomfortable. [/quote]

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